Archive - Hey Shani

I Don't Want To Share A Bed—Ever

Not even if I meet someone.

Jun 16 • Shani Silver

Hey Shani, What If YOU Never Meet Anyone?

How does a reframer reframe forever?

Jun 9 • Shani Silver

Why Don't Men Like Women?

The Age of Animosity.

Jun 2 • Shani Silver

May 2026

"Women Aren't Having Babies!"

Insensitive, inaccurate messaging & it's impact on single women.

May 26 • Shani Silver

I Feel Guilty For Wanting A Boyfriend

Everyone's reframing, but what about those who just want love?

May 19 • Shani Silver

Why Am I Still Attracted To Men?

May 12 • Shani Silver

Will I Ever Be Happy For Other People?

Little sister getting married is a tough one, for sure.

May 5 • Shani Silver

April 2026

Why Isn't Dating Fun?

Social apathy has changed everything.

Apr 28 • Shani Silver

"Trust Me, You Don't Want A Husband."

Platitudes from partnered people don't help.

Apr 21 • Shani Silver

Why Does Astrology Hate Single People?

I've been WAITING for this one.

Apr 14 • Shani Silver

How Do I Explain Hinge To My Therapist?

You didn't light the dumpster fire, and you don't have to prove it.

Apr 7 • Shani Silver

March 2026

These Egg Freezing Ads Are Predatory

And it's not cool.

Mar 31 • Shani Silver