There are considerations to make when getting dressed: are you going to be on your knees chasing them around the floor, is there dribble/spit up coming for you, are there felt tip pens in hands? Or all 3?!

I am new to motherhood (6 months in) and so far I am only making small adjustments to what I’m wearing. I want to and will adapt to my new normal, but when everything else is topsy turvy at the beginning and I’m learning to navigate my own sense of self in this chapter; I’d like the description of my style to start with something other than the word “mother”. Of course it will feature, but I am many things at once.

So here’s what I’ve done so far:

• Swapping dark to light trousers when going out without children. Navy leggings, darker blue denim, khaki comfy chinos get swapped for cream chinos, ecru denim (I don’t like piercing white, personal preference).

• Stopped wearing henley tops when the babies were really little. They did so much contact napping, and with two I basically had one on me at all times. Buttons are not comfortable for them. I’m now starting to wear them again but reserving more for the days I pop out to meet friends for a coffee.

• My winter wool knits were put away. I had my twins in late December, and normally my extensive knitwear collection is on full display until at least March. This year, absolutely not. It’s not cosy on their sensitive skin and I didn’t want to risk all kinds of bodily fluids on my beautiful 100% wool. Instead, it was sweatshirts, thermal layers (Uniqlo you are the best) and cotton knitwear.

• Swapping bags depending on the outing. This is probably an obvious one! With children, I look like I’m moving into wherever I’m going with a large backpack. Without children, it’s delightful to carry a small bag.

• Wearing the same trainers to go walking because I can go miles and miles in them. My Salomon XT6 at this point deserve a medal. I’m probably going to get a sock tan this summer because no sandal can support me (mentally and physically) in the same way. But if I’m not walking, I’m enjoying the novelty of wearing nice, less sensible shoes.

• High-waisted underwear, who knew! Everything seems to hit the exact line of my c-section scar, which is sensitive. All hail these undies from M&S, my friend event went and bought me a second pack when I was still in hospital so I didn’t run out each week.

• Wearing my hair up a lot. I have long hair and I don’t feel the urge to have a mum bob just yet. My hair is thick and needs length to weigh it down, so for now it’s up or in a plait on the days where I don’t feel like styling (i.e. when I’m not seeing anyone outside of the house). As they start grabbing, I need to invest in some silk scrunchies so they don’t pull!

Jewellery is my last point, but it’s not something I’ve committed to changing just yet. I’m still wearing my never-take-off necklace and earrings, but I know they are coming up to the magpie age of grabbing. I think when we get there, I’ll go for something less sentimental that they can tug (necklace not earrings!).

I’m curious as to what other adjustments I’ll continue to make.

Thank you as ever for reading!

—Rhi

Rather than dwell on it, I’ve been daydreaming about all the trips I’ve taken to this beautiful island. I’ve visited almost every year for the past two decades, and I know that when the time comes, I’ll be taking my babies back there for many years to come.

What I love most about Mallorca is how differently everyone experiences it. The island has so many personalities, landscapes and pockets to discover that no two holidays ever seem quite the same.

I was planning to space these destination dressing posts out a little more, but I got too excited about this one. So, if you happen to be heading to Mallorca this month and this proves useful, let’s get into it.

1. Beach swimming

Mallorca has so many beautiful beaches. But the best swimming places tend to be the ones you have to work harder for - this is Cala Llombards and I’ve suggested an outfit accordingly.

• I. love. these. shorts or ‘bloomers” by Suzie Kondi. Towelling, cherry red and basically hot pants. They are perfect for moments like this. You’ll likely need to hike down from where you left, so you won’t want to be in a skirt or anything you could trip up in.

• What’s statement bloomers without a brightly coloured bikini to match? This one is from &OtherStories (I love their swimwear collections each year). Also a bit of support for said hike.

• Most importantly you need good support in your sandals. These Teva Voya Infinity sandals are great for this - I bought them a few years ago for a trip to the Greek Islands when I knew I’d need to do long days in them. No regrets!

• Love this necklace from Hush with the red cord. It screams summer, and means some accessorising without the fear of losing something too sentimental.

• Hydration, snorkels and a good book - essentials for a beach trip.

What else I’m packing:

• Towel - ideally a thick one because those rocks aren’t cosy.

• Headwear - bandana, cap or sun hat due to zero shade.

• Snacks - there’s not always a bar available, and swimming makes me hungry.

2. Market trip

Oh the markets, they are exquisite. I would even say that if you’re not there for very long and would normally choose beach over a market, don’t. There is so much on offer, and so many types of markets on any given day. My favourites are Santanyi, Arta and Valldemossa but I know there are so many more!

• Don’t pack a market bag, buy one there! There are always stalls of beautiful market bags at really good prices.

• A dress that can cope with the heat, because my goodness it can get warm in the back streets. This one is from Zara and yes it says a knit but it looks very thin.

• An essential hat for keeping your face out of the sun, this is the &OtherStories one again.

• These rope sandals from M&S go really nicely with the dress. Or the Teva sandals above if we’re being light on packing.

3. Dinner in Palma

After a beach day, it’s just so nice to get dressed up and head out to dinner. I’ve chosen Palma, but the exceptional quality of the restaurants across the island means you can do this nearly anywhere.

• Linen top from Eres - the neckline gives a really delicate, dressed up feeling but the linen and yellow keep it summery and low key.

• Navy satin wide-leg trousers are surprisingly harder to come by than black. I love these from COS. Just a slightly more relaxed colour than black.

• An overshirt for when it finally gets cooler, I love this from Massimo Dutti. The high neck is so chic.

• Bags (and accessories in general) are a great way to be a bit extra with an outfit. I love to do this - keeping an outfit fairly minimal and then adding a vibey bag. This one is from Zara, collection with Marisa Berenson.

• Statement earrings from Heaven Mayhem at Selfridges to continue the extra-ness.

• Flip flops - for balance!

4. Sunset drinks

This is for those moments where you head to the beach in the later afternoon, knowing you’ll stay into the evening, or the opposite - you had the intention of leaving after a day in the sun but the cold beer at the beach bar was all too tempting and you find yourself still there as the sun sets. Both moments are delightful, enjoy them!

My favourite place to do this (and my phone background for the last five years as a reminder) is around the coast in Porto Colom.

• Bikini - classic shaped but a bright colour for when the sun goes down. This one is Eres. Top and bottoms - the best (if an investment) brand for swimwear.

• Beach dress - slightly see-through, glamorous but covering. Very Missoni-esque but actually Zara.

• Sunglasses - this style is perfect for this look! From Jimmy Fairly

• Tote bag - I really like terry towel material for a beach bag (also great to double up as a pillow or seat). This one is Mango.

• Sangria, but of course.

If you are heading to Mallorca this summer, have the most wonderful time and I’ll maybe see you there next summer!

—Rhi

Alongside the outfits, I’ll be sharing a few favourite spots and saves from each place. I’m certainly not claiming to have discovered any of them, just places I’ve enjoyed or excited to try on my next visit.

First up, Northern Europe, and two cities that come alive in summer: Amsterdam and Copenhagen.

Amsterdam

This summer I will be visiting Amsterdam, as part of a wider trip to the Netherlands for the other half of the family to meet the twins, if their passports arrive in time. But within that, I will be spending a couple of days with my best friend in Amsterdam. I cannot wait! Being with a Dutch person, I’ve found myself in this city more in recent years and I do really love its charm. I have so many saved places on Maps it looks like I’ve thrown up on it.

• Navy sweatshirt - oversized, comfortable. Perfect for travel, cooler days or evenings and easily tied around the waist. Mine is Arket.

• Grey vest - this mottled grey colour from Massimo Dutti is delicious. I love the fit too: high crew neck but with low arm loops, very flattering.

• Linen bermudas - these are from LouLou de Saison but I’m going to cheat and show you these from ASOS which are 1/10th of the price and are perfect. I bought in both ivory and black.

• Woven leather bag - I bought mine from Hush a couple of years ago (I don’t think it’s still available), when Dragon Diffusion Nantucket launched. It’s still my trusty city trip bag of choice.

• Yeti 20oz rambler. Hydration is key in between coffee, beer and bitterballen.

• Gold hoops, always.

What else I’m packing:

• Rain jacket. You just never know in the Netherlands and rain shouldn’t stop anyone. Love this one from Free People (it also packs down in a bag - genius no?).

• Decent walking shoes. It’s not so easy for non-locals to rent bikes, and I’m not sure I’m confident enough yet to go up against Dutch riders in the city centre. They mean business. I’m taking my Salomons.

• Cap. For all weathers it’s just useful. Mine is Alex Eagle.

Some recommendations:

JWO Lekkernijen - a delicatessen in the Jordaan where you can get freshly made broodjes with all the fillings.

Cafe t’Smalle - where the photo above is from! One of many good cafes to get a beer.

Kikkies - another cafe to have beers and bitterballen while you people watch.

Flo’s Deli - the best, BEST bagels outside of New York. This one is by Vondelpark too.

Copenhagen

When I first arrived in Copenhagen, I instantly felt at home - more than any other European city that I’ve visited. I’m not even sure I could explain why, it was just a feeling. I must confess that I am still yet to visit in the summer, but I know from everything I read that the city comes alive in summer. If I loved it in the cold, I can only imagine how I’ll feel in the warmth.

• White henley long sleeve for cycling back post swim at La Banchina. I managed to get my hands on the Arket x Laila Gohar collaboration, but this one from Zara looks like the next best thing.

• Linen bermudas, like these one from Massimo Dutti. With the top so relaxed, I think adding tailored shorts makes it feel more intentional.

• Black flip flops - an easy no brainer, and with cycling there is less of a need for arch support.

• Colourful swimsuit, like this one from &OtherStories.

• Sunglasses from Lie Studio, a new launch and one I’ve been waiting for a while for! These are the Lee style, with slightly larger frames.

What else I’m packing:

• A striped cotton sweater, like this one from WNU. It’s notably colder once the sun goes down, and likely I’d be cycling with wet hair, so would feel the chill.

• My trusty waxed tote bag from GAP to carry everything I need.

• Towel from Tekla to sunbathe and dry myself off.

I’ve been adding to Maps since I went, so these are a mix of recommendations plus saves for the next visit:

• La Banchina - the restaurant in the above photo, which also serves chilled drinks to those sunbathing and swimming.

• Kødbyen (Meatpacking District) in Vestebro. I went to a restaurant there when I visited and I loved the area. Next time I want to try Hart bakery, for obvious reasons!

• Louisiana Museum of Modern Art - I cannot wait to visit here one day!

• Pompette natural wine shop and bar - low key, no fuss and chilled. How I like my wine.

Thank you for reading! Let me know if you’re visiting either city this summer, or have any recommendations to share.

—Rhi

I own a lot of pyjamas, like a lot. it’s my favourite place to be, and I like to be comfortable while I’m there.

The trend of wearing nightwear outside of the bedroom has resurfaced in recent years, see The Row for adding a slip to an outfit (I loved) so that the bottom draped under a sweater and over the jeans. Doen launched the Iona silk shorts, which I think some people would definitely describe as nightwear. But they looked amazing, see below last summer in them.

Fast forward a bit, and the high street is catching up - lace, silk and sheer are everywhere. In short, everyone is wearing nightwear out. I think the people who get it right are the ones who style it with something decidedly not nightwear, which makes it feel intentional rather than like they’ve simply forgotten to get dressed.

The idea of wearing a white cotton nightdress or tunic in the daytime comes and goes, but I’ve always loved the carefree ease of it. In another life, I’d be wearing one of these while walking to collect my morning baguette in the small French village I live in.

1. Dress, Free People / 2. Jelly shoes, H&M / 3. Gold-plated hoops, Missoma / 4. Straight jeans, Massimo Dutti / 5. Market bag, Sezane

Simple outfit, but with some character. I’d add a red silk scarf as a bandana and/or a brown leather belt as well. These jeans are also the most perfect wash, and yes this is a very fancy “market bag”!

This would be me, collecting all of my baguettes for the day.

So I’m on the hunt for an authentic French cotton tunic to live out this fantasy. I’m thinking Etsy is the most likely place - if anyone knows any vendors, let me know!

—Rhi

Bermuda shorts are perfect for wearing once the weather is good enough. Office, park, city, beach - all ticked. They can be elegant, as well as helping to address any upper-leg insecurities (which I have).

A real mix of more structured, tailored fabrics, light, flowy linen, and then the classic denim — they cover it all. I specifically have some thoughts on wearing denim Bermuda shorts, which apply less to the tailored version:

1. Length is important - too long and it can look like you accidentally bought cropped jeans or pedal pushers.

2. If it’s a wide leg, there can be too much thick material around the knees. If you want a wide leg, go for a thinner fabric (chino or linen work nicely).

3. As most of the photos above show, you can either lean into the grungier look (oversized long sleeve and socks with converse, or similar), or — and I prefer this — elevate them with delicate and interesting flats. With tailoring you can play around with this as the fabric is already elevating the look - holliemercedes does this really well.

1. Denim - I like these from Mango (£29.99).

2. Linen - these tailored ones from ASOS look great and are £36, or slightly longer length ones from Hush here at £75.

3. Tailored - Uniqlo win again with these at £24.90.

And where can I find the light pink shorts in the middle picture? So nice!

Finally, I recently discovered Helen Taylor, whose TikTok blew up when her morning yoghurt bowls went viral. Niche, yes. I tried her chia pudding recipe, which I then add to plain Greek yoghurt in the morning and if I’m lucky some fruit and nuts. It’s quick, delicious and simple. Here’s her recipe, I take no credit:

• 1 tbsp chia seeds

• 50ml milk (I use dairy but coconut would be tasty)

• 2 tbsp Greek yoghurt

• 1 tbsp honey

• 1 lime - grated zest and juice

Method: Combine all the ingredients and leave overnight in the fridge.

It’s quite sweet because of the honey, so you don’t need to add any other sweetener, but the lime keeps it fresh and zingy

Let me know if you try it! I reckon oranges would work really nicely too.

Happy May bank holiday if you’re in the UK!

—Rhi

Recently I found myself searching Pinterest (which you can find here) for images of people wearing a variety of shirts. As I’m not currently in need of looking office-ready, and instead wanting low maintenance comfort, I can see that I’m drawn to shirts that have loose, lighter fabrics and are worn with a few buttons down. Quite summery and effortless.

I liked this one (pictured below) that I saw in COS the other day, where the design achieves this look and there is no top button. The stripe and slightly more tailored material stops it being too beach. Very very nice.

M&S are also doing some slightly different shirt options at the moment. I got this one which looks more for spring than summer but it is light weight enough for the warmer months. I like that it gives you back a waist.

recently wrote a lovely post on interesting brands to buy shirts from here. She always finds brands that are more off the beaten track, and where you’ll likely then not match with someone else on the tube/in the office.

Completely NOT off the beaten track, but I found two shirts from Pull & Bear of all places that I thought were cool, and not expensive. This checked shirt and then this one that comes with a matching bandana to wear around the waist.

Finally, I leave you with this super cool styling, with the red scarf worn around the waist. Low effort, but considered and I love it. Chef’s kiss.

Have a great week!

—Rhi

We went to Oren in Hackney and it was delicious. As well as just being out in the real world, the highlights were the vermouth aperitifs, and oysters with a salsa verde and artichoke puree. Chefs kiss. It’s in the Michelin guide, which is how my boyfriend found it, and we went for an early dinner but it was full by 7pm, on a Tuesday!

I turned 37 this year, and my presents from my parents were all gardening focused. Fleece lined gardening clogs? Sign me up. I also became a member of my nearest Gardening Club and will be spending hours walking around there in the coming months. Slowly tending to our garden and making it our own was a task I was most looking forward while on mat. leave. Alas, it’s slower than I’d like as it turns out twins are a handful but it brings me so much joy when I can be out there.

I’m also going to George Northwood’s salon soon for some much needed colour put back in. These photos are exciting me to return to light blonde, no more dark sallow blonde please. I really like his salons, and the way they do colour is right up my street: subtle, natural and perfect for the lazy/busy to upkeep.

Here’s some lovely things I’ve seen recently:

1. ’s ad for Hunter boots. I loved these photos, shot by the incredible Emily Yates. Very similar to the Pinterest board above! Also how nice is the Maggie Marilyn knit she is wearing too?

2. I received a Hush voucher for my birthday and I think I am either going to buy this white skirt (for vibes like the above) or these long denim shorts.

3. I saw the photo below on ’s Substack, and I went straight onto Vinted and found a vintage Gant rugby shirt. I love it, and have been wearing it with these Free People dungarees (they are so soft). I love the Sea NY shirt that she’s wearing and how she’s paired it with nice earrings and a slick bun to keep it from looking too casual.

4. Niche one, so ignore if you aren’t in the market for a baby bag. My best friend started working at Roka London earlier this year, and recommended their new release bag for when I started adventuring out of the house. It’s an investment, but it’s pure joy to have everything I need in one place, separated into areas - there’s an insulation section for keeping bottles cool, a wet section for dirties and a clipped in shoulder bag with a changing mat. They have quite literally thought of everything.

Have a lovely week.

—Rhi

Everyone and their mum is talking about CBK style, and there are already plenty of Substack articles on how to emulate the look in 2026. In my opinion, the Scandi girls have taken the 90s aesthetic and run with it best, while the all-American New England version is something I approach with a bit more caution. If you were a teenager like me in the noughties, the Abercrombie & Fitch and/or Jack Wills era still haunts you slightly.

That said, I do love a bit of American collegiate style, Polo Ralph Lauren does it so well and still manages to stay relevant. The recent menswear runway was spot on and everyone (men and women) took note.

I can’t deny that I’ve been influenced by Love Story, I want to lean into the 90s style again like I have visited Cape Cod but without it being my entire personality. Here’s what I’ve found recently that I’ve liked:

1. showed me this jumper and I fell in love. The neckline is spot on and I want to be wearing this while walking getting sandy/salty on a welsh beach this summer (sadly I won’t be walking on a beach in Nantucket anytime soon).

2. I saw this M&S dress in person, and it’s even better than it looks online. It feels more premium than the £50 price tag (currently 20% off with Sparks card), the style reminds of Dôen.

3. At this point I should probably work for them, but another M&S steal, these suede boat shoes can be smart, casual and everything in between. I prefer the darker colour, the light laces on the sand versions are a bit meh.

4. Another brand I should probably work for at this point, Hush. Very old school but I was recently sent their latest catalogue through my door and I loved nearly every page. I do think their e-comm styling is a lot less appealing as when I went to find some of the pieces I was put off some pieces, but I think this Salty sweatshirt would look really cool, worn how they have styled it here.

5. I bought this waxed tote bag from GAP recently and I am thrilled - it’s got a great thickness to it, and the two straps are perfect for different scenarios. It rivals the LL Bean or Alex Mill versions that everyone seems to have. (I wouldn’t say no to a personalised Alex Mill tote though…). You can order GAP items and get them delivered to your nearest Next, as the brand now shows up really weirdly in the UK.

6. Finally, I was served this rollneck sweater from Abercrombie & Fitch via Instagram ads. It’s technically menswear but who cares, they often have the better sweaters anyway. Similar to the J Crew rollneck but without the duties. I’m in.

Lastly, Calvin Klein nailed Sarah Pidgeon’s look for the Oscars. Perfection.

If you’ve made it this far, thank you so much for reading. I’m currently in my peak sleep-deprivation era with newborn twins, and thinking about what to write on Substack genuinely helps me through the nighttime feeds.

—Rhi

It does feel strange to think it’s March already, but I for one am very excited for the change of season, and for feeling motivated to take daily walks without battling cold weather gear. Spring is my favourite season, with Easter being my ultimate holiday. Growing up, it was the one time we were allowed chocolate at breakfast. What’s not to love?!

I’ve found some inspiration for what I’d like to be wearing in the coming weeks and months, as we slowly begin to peel off the thick winter coats and boots, swapping them for lighter jackets and sandals.

I would never say that my style is girly or frilly, but Spring always seems to inspire me to reach more for romantic blouses and soft, pastel colours. Pale pink in particular is everywhere and it could be all too easy to end up looking like a marshmallow. I’d wear with jeans, boots, a chunky jumper round the neck or waist and a denim or leather jacket, to not feel like I’ve veered too far from my normal self. Here’s some that I’ve found recently.

1. This linen blouse from Massimo Dutti is perfection - the warm pink that works so nicely with blue denim (also not too girly pink and would look ace with a tan), the relaxed neckline, everything. It’s also a great thickness so great for now with jeans and jackets, but also in summer where I’d consider adding a cord necklace.

2. I don’t always love poplin shirts, I don’t like to make sounds with my clothing (weird to describe but IYKYK). However, I really like this waisted version from Zara. It’s different from the usual boring blue poplin shirts you see around, great lines and creates a lovely silhouette. I’d deal with the crispy sound I’d make because I’d look great.

3. This neckline and front bib detail make this shirt from COS perfect for spring. Worn with a knit if it’s still chilly and the neck frills poke out the top, and when it warms up, you get the white-tie dress code effect - chic, but relaxed. I’d keep it casual with denim to not look too formal.

4. Mango hasn’t really captured my imagine in recent months/year, but I always go take a look at what they do at this time of year because they like a blouse in spring as much as I do. Yes, this one is very frilly and so would need to be toned down in the rest of the outfit but I love it; it also nods to the pale pink trend that’s creeping in without going too off-piste.

5. Sheer, pink and styled with brown - thank you Reformation! The oversized fit of their Eli shirt is great so it’s not taken too seriously.

6. Bear with me. Yes, it’s a very structured and shiny fabric that looks like it came from the 80s, but the Japanese-inspired neckline/buttons are very now. Imagine this worn with blue vintage denim, with a tiny (tiny) flash of skin between. Try it before you judge. From Stories.

— Rhi

I hadn’t updated these clothes since Covid, and so they were worn when nobody could see me, the bottom half on a zoom call or the end of a long day and chilling on the sofa. There are holes, old stains and saggy knees. Charming.

But then I needed them to be seen in public, and I wanted to give the impression that believe it or not, I was a somewhat put together person. I try to usually achieve this through my outfit choices - I’m not iron-obsessed and one of my styling words is “undone”, but it’s always been a considered choice rather than lack of care.

Fast forward to now, I’m spending more time indoors (often with visitors), or on short trips outside to friends houses and parks, and I still want the same thing from my loungewear. It needs to be functional, comfortable and not like I’ve put them on from the floor. Time for an update.

Luckily for me, this category has grown exponentially in recent years, from higher price point brands with quality fabrics to high street options that can tolerate stains and high temp. washes - there’s a lot of choice.

Something I personally don’t like is super thick rigid cotton sweats. There’s a balance between the thickness looking more expensive, which means less baggy knees and holding its shape, but too rigid that it feels restrictive and you can’t move freely. Also a middle age comment, but thick sweats take an age to dry which I don’t have time for and are then crispy and never as soft.

These are some of the brands where I’ve found that they have what I’m looking for, and I’ve highlighted a few of my favourite options from each. I’m sure there are plenty more for me to discover so this isn’t an exhaustive list!

Vuori - A Californian brand with an effortless West Coast feel — surfing, fitness, healthy lifestyle. I have friends who swear by their Performance Joggers, especially for long-haul flights. I love this new sweater and trousers in brown: chic enough for a morning walk, made in French terry, with a barrel leg.

Alo - Another great Californian native, but more yoga and wellness based. Love this ¼ zip — this style of jumper is everywhere right now. It’s giving post-Pilates energy, and as I ease myself back into fitness, feeling the part gets me one step closer to actually doing the class.

Adanola - This one skews younger and very trend-led — I can imagine it everywhere on uni campuses. Lila Moss is the latest spokesmodel, which tracks. I love the varsity collection, very preppy. This long sleeve (pictured) is perfect for lounging and the knit sweatpants look so cosy, if not particularly outdoor friendly.

Sweaty Betty - I’ve moved away from SB as a brand as the patterns started to feel a bit too mumsy. That said, a lot of what I currently own is old SB — and despite the baggy knees, it’s survived. One thing I will buy again and again: the All Day leggings. They’re genuinely the best. They stay up, feel soft, and don’t show lumps and bumps. The maternity version was also a solid 10/10.

Pangaia - Colourful basics - think American Apparel, but better quality and with more of a conscience. It’s a B-Corp, using recycled and responsibly sourced materials. They do both heavyweight and midweight capsule collections. For reasons mentioned above, I’m firmly a midweight lover, and this is a great sweat set. I also love the simple branding, it’s so cool.

H&M - I’ve found a high-street version (pictured) of the Vuori set I mentioned above, at a fraction of the price. It also means it can be more hard-wearing and handle a lot more, without you worrying you’ve stained a £120 sweatshirt.

M&S - Every Substack of mine now seems to include M&S. Is it showing my age, or has their buying team had a refresh in recent years? Who knows. But for some things — comfort especially — I’ll always check here (I’ve worn their underwear since my first bra). I particularly love this knit hoody, which I spotted on a friend the other day.
Deliciously cosy. This blue henley is really cool too (pictured).

Free People - Not a loungewear brand per se, but their Movement collection is excellent. The Hit the Slopes fleece jacket is iconic. I love these track pants (pictured) — very ’80s, great for quick errands, and they wash and dry quickly if (when) something gets on them.

If there are other loungewear brands I should know about, let me know!

Have a lovely weekend

—Rhi

What florals in Spring are to Miranda Priestley is what knitwear in January is to Substack - hardly groundbreaking. But as it’s likely to be the largest section of most people’s wardrobe (for those that live in colder climates), it’s understandably a hot topic.

Though I already own an undisclosed number of knitted jumpers, I am always on the hunt for another. Like the white t-shirt and vintage denim, the search for the perfect knit is ongoing.

My collection ranges from wool blends to more synthetic and cheaper fibres, but the ones I return to each winter (unless the bastard moths get to them) are the higher-quality pieces I’ve invested in. They’re more classic in style and colour, and they’re 100% wool.

I’m not anti synthetic fibres — they have their place. I’ve just bought this set from H&M: it’s cosy and soft, as well as easily washable and well priced. Great for my current situation with a couple of newborns..

The failsafe choices for incredible, high quality knitwear would be &Daughter, Susie Kondi, Navygrey, which require a larger investment. I often battle between wanting the best quality, but needing something easy to wash and that is not going to be taken down by moths. A happy medium is what’s more available on the high street, but I aspire to one day own the Ada crewneck cardigan.

1. BIG fan of this Hush knit, it has all the buzzwords: chunky, cashmere, crewneck, relaxed fit. The thickness of the neckline makes it look so chic and with 100% cashmere, Hush is my favourite option that bridges the gap between the high price point contenders and the high street. Cost: £260

2. Similar option here from COS with similar terms - still chunky, 100% cashmere and crew neck. The slightly balloon-shaped sleeves makes this feel slightly cooler/more trend-led than the Hush jumper. Cost: £229

3. This V-neck from Autograph at M&S is SO nice. In classic navy and worn with either a crewneck white t-shirt (if a bit cliche) or, as the model wears, just by itself. The high neck is super flattering and the oversized style keeps it fresh, because v-necks can feel outdated quickly. Cost: £80

4. If you love the Hush and COS knits above but not sold on the investment, then this one from & Other Stories, is for you. It’s a wool/cotton blend, oversized and with drop shoulders for a relaxed look. I really like how they’ve styled with a white roll-neck too. Cost: £77

5. Don’t sleep on the men’s section as they usually have better knitwear options. This heavy knit wool jumper from Arket is delightful and 100% wool.

And finally, some things I’ve liked recently to wear with the beloved knitwear.

1. Genius design by influencer Hollie’s brand Cloimh - a lovely beanie but with the added flaps like a ski hat, for those that a bonnet is a step too far. It’s so cool and also keeps my wee ears warm.

2. They’re not new, but these straight jeans by Uniqlo x JW Anderson are a great fit, with 3x different washes.

3. I love Lie Studio, founded by twin models Cecilie and Amalie Moosgaard Nielson. Beaded necklaces look great when just seen through the crew-neck.

4. Also not reinventing the wheel here, but there’s a reason the Ray-Ban Wayfarers have a cult following. These in tortoiseshell are slightly softer than the classic black.

5. These are new in, and I love the sharper angle than regular ballet pumps. From M&S and £36 but look much more expensive. Run!

We’ve nearly made it through January!

—Rhi

There’s one thing I kept saying throughout: I slowly lost my sense of style. I felt so bloody fortunate to be pregnant, but the anxiety of producing healthy babies, as well as an ever changing body, really does do a number on you. While we’re on the subject - maternity clothes. I found the options were massively limited, high-street and affordable options even more so. Those that do offer Mama ranges — see H&M and M&S — don’t even have them in store; you can only buy online, which enraged me. How am I meant to know my new size?!

I was never high maintenance with my hair, make-up or outfits anyway so this isn’t reinventing the wheel. My 3 words won’t be changing (Allison Bornstein’s style method, who suggests choosing a practical, emotional and aspirational word to define your style). My words are undone, styled, effortless.

The following shares are for anyone looking for slow starts in the coldest months of the year, for whatever reason.

1. All-weather rubber boots - these Tretorn boots from Toast are a steal at £100. Reviews on these say they’re comfy, perfect for long dog walks and bridge the gap between Blundstone boots, that aren’t 100% waterproof and clunky wellies, that don’t offer any foot support.

2. I’ve bought these 2-pack of henley jumpers from Next and excited for them to arrive. At £30, I hope the quality is good as they’re exactly what I want to be wearing.

3. A great oversized long sleeve top! It’s soft, cosy and looks good with both sweats and jeans. This one is Topshop via ASOS.

4. I’m on my second pair of these Yoko Wool slippers, they keep my feet toasty all winter long and don’t fall off easily.

5. Loungewear is naturally a big part of my wardrobe this winter, and I love these barrel-leg joggers from M&S to feel a bit put together.

6. gave me this Ember mug for Christmas, and I’m a convert. Hot tea, all the time.

7. I recently got the Max shirt from Sezane in this tartan. It’s so cosy, and it has poppers!

8. Yes the Barbour Maude jacket is not cheap, but waterproof jackets (not shower proof) should be invested in.

9. How nice is this jumper?! From H&M and only £37.99. The pop of red in an outfit is not going anywhere either.

10. When I remember to do a beauty routine, this will always feature. It’s the best product I’ve ever tried at keeping my face hydrated in the cold season.

So in some ways, it is New Year, new me, but not because of any resolutions - I’m a new mum in a new year. I’m looking forward to discovering a new sense of self in this changed body, and to having Substack as my outlet and a reason to look for exciting things during maternity leave — whether that’s products, recipes, wellness routines, etc. I might not be able to try it all myself, but I can enjoy spending the time researching and spreading the joy for others to discover.

Happy New Year everyone! Here’s to a happy and healthy 2026.

—Rhi

1. Poppy Almond’s outfit with the white jorts gave me fresh ideas on how to wear a pair I had just bought from Topshop. The knitted cardigan with the socks and loafers: just the right side of preppy.

2. I got served this brand recently on Instagram and instantly sent to my best friend. Agua De Madre is a UK based and female-led company, that sells products that are seemingly good for the gut. But what made me share immediately was their jars of lemon and ginger, which is exactly what I want to reach for when I have a cold/feeling under the weather. I haven’t tried yet but as soon as the weather turns, I’ll be ordering in advance of the Autumn sniffles.

3. Possibly one of my favourite shops in the world, I have been known to visit Winchester solely to visit The Hambledon. Whoever is in charge of their buying should get more credit - the homewares are incredible, I find new exciting brands each time I visit. Plus the men’s and women’s edits ensure everyone is occupied for a good while. The actual shop is a delight too. A must visit.

4. I’m heading to Amsterdam this weekend and I found this men’s brand Bram’s Fruit has a store there. The caps that say “f*ck off I’m gardening” instantly appealed but I really like this shirt.

5. I’m not sure why this hasn’t occurred to me before, but flat-packing meals is genius (I realise I may be very late to the game). Expectant mother shared this recent delivery from The Food Doula , which describes itself as edible support. Whether you know someone with a new family or just need some edible support for yourself - this feels incredible wholesome.

6. , from Harper and Harley - one of the original blogs I used to read way back when, is the founder of The Undone Store from Australia. She’s know for elevated wardrobe essentials and this image describes this perfectly. I love the fit and fabric of this oversized knitted polo - it could be boring, but it’s just not.

7. Loved this whole outfit and styling from Margaret Howell. No notes.

8. Saw these Spring Court shoes on Michaëla’s instagram and I kind of loved them. I can still smell the plimsolls that I had to wear for gym in school and I feel like these would take me straight back to simpler times.

Have a good weekend!

—Rhi

Navigating what to wear has become my daily battle, with cardigans and long-sleeves tied around my waist or packed into my bag, alongside my iced water and portable fan. I don't work in a corporate setting, but I equally can’t use my holiday wardrobe either and so I’ve realised I need to build out my summer city go-to outfits. I’m still not sure why I have such a large collection of only-holiday pieces for the (if I’m lucky) 1-2 week annual trips into Europe, yet not enough everyday items that get me through humid London each summer.

Here’s some inspiration for the “summer in the city” aesthetic that a lot of us actually need.

Sharing below some of the things that I’ve seen or bought recently to try and change the disparity in my wardrobe, and make my mornings less effort.

1. These balloon-shaped jeans from Pull and Bear are lighter and more summer-friendly than other trousers.

2. I was swayed by the (many) TikTok ads I saw on Wonderskin lip stain - but it does work for a good amount of the day. I got the colour Whimsical, which gives me a warm rose colour .

3. Love this top from Zara, which is a great throw on when it’s hot.

4. I really want this dress from Whistles, made from organic cotton it’s fantastic for warm weather and the smocked style is so flattering. It can also be dressed up or down depending on the occasion.

5. Too smart for the beach, but this linen sarong skirt from Mango is the perfect nod to summer.

6. Again can be dressed up or down, and I love the drop waist of this dress by H&M - also comes in cream but it could look a bit bridal (unless that’s what you’re after).

7. Flip flops are back thanks to The Row and it means my Havaiana’s are now not just an easy choice but a fashionable one!

8. I bought these sunglasses from Mango, I just loved the shaped.

Hope you manage to stay cool this week!

—Rhi

We viewed a property for around 15 minutes last weekend, came out jumping around because we both felt something and then spent the rest of the day debating the offer. We’d had a similar feeling a few weeks ago, and spent the following week being dragged through the process only to fall at the last hurdle. So this time, we were absolutely not expecting to hear - “your offer has been accepted”. As my boyfriend said when I called him - oh shit.

It’s a beauty, and it’s totally liveable - structurally great (until surveyors say otherwise) and we can expand in there for years to come. However, there are some extremely questionable interiors choices that I’ll be hoping to fix - budget seriously permitting - as soon as we can.

It’s a tricky business to agree on taste, compromises and vetos with someone else whilst committing to putting down your entire life savings on essentially a feeling. So back to the Pinterest board it is, showing each other what we like and (hopefully) coming to an agreement on where to start. Let’s just hope it all goes through!

I am no minimalist; I don’t like unnecessary clutter but I do like organised chaos - a house that looks lived in. The ceramics, trinkets or otherwise are placed mindfully, but the book shelves aren’t ordered and encourage people to randomly grab an interesting book - I guess it’s my difference between styling and wearing, in interiors talk.

I’ve spent my adult life so far renting, and I’ve become pretty good (if I do say so myself) at making spaces look mine within the confines of rental agreements - being able to change some things, but knowing you can’t rip out others. That definitely comes down to the small purchases to make the house feel yours, so I’m sharing some specific interior items that I’ve found recently that don’t just apply to owning a house, but I fully accept not everyone gets to. And on this, I know just how lucky I am that we have been able to do this… if it goes through!

1. Labour and Wait is a great homeware shop, stocking everyday but design-led classics that stand the test of time, and are often still made by traditional methods. This enamel bread bin is exactly that.

2. Lucy Laucht, is an incredible photographer. I’ve followed her on Instagram for years, the shots of her trips India are one of the reasons it’s at no.1 on my must-visit list. She’s currently working on a new book, but this one captures the Italian summer, and a perfect coffee table book for guests (or you) to flick through on a slow day.

3. A definite upgrade from the Tesco salt and pepper grinders, this Addison Ross bobbin salt and pepper grinders look so nice on the side and on the table. Get different colours for your salt and pepper!

4. Another L&W favourite, but I’ve always wanted to have one of these drilled into my kitchen wall!

5. I really like the shape of this lamp shade (from good old John Lewis) base, like it’s been cut off! It feels modern and a point of difference from more traditional shapes.

6. As the French cafes do, I too like to drink wine from Duralex Picardie tumblers rather than traditional wine glasses - which only get brought out when a wine connoisseur visits (and that’s not often). It feels more low-key at dinner, more casual and more homely. I use them for water on the table too!

7. Maybe more practical that no-one else will see, but these wardrobe cedar blocks from Zara Home keep moisture out and clothes smelling fresh - helpful when you share a wardrobe!

8. Paint - the easiest way (if allowed) to make a room feel more like you. I like the colours that Lick sells, and will be buying samples!

9. With my family being Welsh and from Pembrokeshire, a Melin Tregwynt blanket is an essential household item. My grandmother bought me and my sister both one each as a first-house present and it will continue to keep me warm in winter for the rest of my life. If you aren’t lucky enough to visit their Mill (you should), Toast actually stock a couple of styles.

10. Meaningful art/posters. Art is tough and I do not have the funds for one-off pieces (nor do I know enough). Instead I frame things from when I have traveled whether that’s menus or postcards, or when I’ve found a poster shop. On a holiday to Sri Lanka a few years ago, we found Stick No Bills in Galle Fort. I have the framed map in my living room and it still brings me happy memories of one my favourite ever holidays - three best friends just surfing and exploring!

11. Allday Goods knives - created by a chef, these are high quality but more accessible than professional knives and have personality. But, the handle is from plastic waste, the first being from old milk bottle lids! The founder worked with a Japanese blacksmith for the blade, and the rest is history.

Have a great week!

—Rhi

I am a big fan of all of these inspiring looks, especially the ones top middle - I need to find where those are from. They all manage to look really cool, which gets harder when wearing potentially quite garish trousers.

But looking closely, the idea is repeated in each outfit - interesting in the bottom, subtle on top. You can definitely vary the fabric, fit, colour of the top but it lets the trousers sing. This is like an entry-level description to the interesting trouser. There are those, far more skilled than I, who are able to carry off wearing two conflicting prints on top and bottom. But this requires some serious thought - something that a normal day doesn’t demand of me very often.

I’ve included a mixture of fabric, fit, pattern and price tag in my findings below, which can help you navigate how/when you would want to style them.

1. Very Italian riviera - these from Maje are made mostly from viscose (with some linen) so breathable, and flow nicely. Could definitely be worn on a trip to the Mediterranean this summer - on or by the sea!

2. 100% linen, the pattern on these Boden will make you stand out at any summer party - but could also be worn more casually with flip flops and a denim jacket.

3. An absolute steal at £27.99 - these casual trousers from Bershka are amazing for lounging in on a hot day.

4. Another pair from Boden! Not my usual go-to brand, but they’ve made interesting trousers their thing. To avoid making these too mumsy (sorry but Boden can lean into that quite quickly), I would add a graphic tee, some flip flops, maybe a cap. These are incredibly cool when styled.

5. Zara combining the jean and print, also with a barrel leg to keep it looking super relevant. I would personally avoid any other colour or print here.

6. The best until last, these from La Veste are just so good and they come in multiple colour ways!

Hopefully this sparks some interest to think outside of the box, as it were, this summer. Trousers tend to be an after thought for the interesting top, or even shoe. But not this year!

Have a great week.

—Rhi

1. Jigsaw served me an ad on my Stories feed, and I feel like they knew what they were doing. I love this suit. The linen fabric, the not-too-girly pink, and the collarless blazer makes this a perfect option for summer. Dressed up or down, this is a must-have.

2. Big fan of and her effortless French-chic mixed with living in New York and London and working as a fashion buyer. Is there anything cooler? I love the relaxed full-white look, but elevated with the jumper, necklace and brown belt.

3. I follow both of Emily’s instagram accounts - her personal and her photography, and I love them equally. This shot is actually rather different than her usual, in that she is usually shooting somewhere tropical and looking divine in a swimsuit! But I loved the hair, this Sezane jacket and lovely woven shoes.

4. Another brand ad served to me, and I’m still yet to buy anything from Verge Girl as it’s Australian, so the return factor is scary. But I loved the shape of the jacket with the shorts.

5. Talking of good jacket shapes, I saw this Mango jacket on Sapna and thought it looked so chic. Also really great with the oversized high-waister trousers that she’s styled it with.

6. I can’t remember how I found Anna’s account but I just think she is the epitome of French beauty. I think she also models on the side of her job, but I screenshot this particular shot because I absolutely adore her make-up - but the eye flick! I talked about Violette’s Bisou Bisou lip balm which would be perfect for this.

7. asked seven experts from the world of fashion for their opinion on this summer’s vibe - and I love the matrix they came out with. Depending on my mood I could easily swing from recession to boom boom and from sporty to boho on any given day.

8. Another account from the Sheerluxe team! But as I’m sure I’ve mentioned, I really love 99% of Lu’s outfits, and the 1% is just envy that I couldn’t begin to pull it off. Seemingly simple in the one below, but the jeans are fitted to hit the feet perfectly, and the cardigan has enough of a scoop neck to show the white t-shirt underneath. Also the secret rule - adding red somewhere instantly makes the outfit better. This one is H&M, a steal at £19.99.

Hope you have enjoyed! I would love to know the accounts you tend to screenshot from.

Have a great weekend.

—Rhi

With this weekend being Memorial Day in the US and the official beginning of summer - the New England aesthetic has never been more prevalent. For me as a British person, I can look over in awe at those lucky enough to visit Martha’s Vineyard etc. and try to emulate the feeling.

Right now, I don’t envy Americans - but I do wish that I could nip to these beautiful islands for a long weekend and enjoy being on and by the water!

Next up, more from my Notes, where I keep an eternal list of things I’ve seen, like, love and want to share.

1. Not new, and this colourway from Merci is currently OOS, but I have finally decided that when I visit Paris this summer, I will succumb to buying this small bag. I saw an elderly Parisian woman wearing one when I was there last, and well, I still think about how great she looked!

2. I’ve just bought these from ASOS (with the code ASOSBFF for 20% off…) - called Topshop Alaia shoes, these are as close as I will get to owning a pair of Alaia’s. But I really like the details - square toe, neat tie, suede and the pop of red to make a boring outfit seem more interesting.

3. I actually read this in January on a flight to New York, so it took me around 7ish hours. I cried, I laughed, and I got hungry, which on a plane was rather sad. I love Stanley Tucci.

4. My gorgeous friends launched Soft Launch London some time ago, and I just think it’s the coolest idea. I didn’t know this, but when new restaurants first open their doors, they go through a teething period where they soft launch their menus. You can subscribe to their newsletter (free or paid models) to be one of the first to secure a table, with incredible discounts off the menu. Genius!

5. Despite the fact that no-one can currently shop the site, I bought these M&S shorts for my holiday last week and they were so comfortable. Hit them up in-store if you can.

6. When lipstick feels too extra, I like this iconic Bisou Bisou balm in Bêtise, by French brand Violette. Half balm, half lipstick, it gives the smudged French-girl look.

7. It’s currently on sale if you’re an H&M member, this lyocell-blend jacket is so light - perfect for throwing in a bag and/or taking to a festival for when the sun goes down.

8. I came across this scent in Zara Home in Barcelona last week and I couldn’t get enough. The Siroc Tales scent comes in a candle and diffuser, and smells like the Mediterranean with figs, jasmine and citrus. Chefs kiss.

9. WNU has established itself as the perfect shirt brand, but I love this latest release with a collaboration with an artist - Bellamy Jean. The boyfriend fit stops the embroidery feeling too quaint.

10. I bought one of these de-puffing face rollers on holiday last week, and when put in the fridge feels amazing in the morning, especially after slightly too much sun.

Have a good week!

—Rhi

See first some inspiration for a city break outfit: flowy layers (linen-blend shirts are great for this) with either the option of shorts and add a jumper, or if slightly more chilly, trousers and a vest top underneath said shirt.

Accessories should never be underestimated when space is limited - they become the difference between wearing and styling an outfit.

**I’ve starred the items that I’ll be wearing to save space. At this point I will be looking like Joey from Friends (IYKYK).

• Bags: This Filson bag has long been my travel companion, it definitely is a stretch on what is classified as an “under seat bag” but it can do it, and if it’s on your shoulder, *touch wood*, I don’t get asked about it. Must have is a small shoulder bag for passport, purse etc. this one from H&M would squash nicely. If room, I would also like to bring a tote bag for beach, supermarkets run etc.

• Shoes: I’m loving my boat shoes from M&S, they are so comfortable and I’m hoping can handle a walking day around the city. These from Free People have gotten a lot of hype too. Also my black Havaianas are a must.

• Hats: Is extra to take 2? Possibly. I have this crochet one from Uniqlo which can elevate an otherwise simple look. For a cap, I love this one from Soeur.

• Beauty: Davines OI milk and paddle brush are must-haves to tame any frizz, this Caudalie SPF stick balm won’t have to be included in the liquids pouch, then some low key make up - just glow cream on my face from Erborian, flush balm in Beverley Hills by Merit, and for the evenings lipstick in Helene by Rouje. Nothing else touches my eyebrows except Refy. My sister gave me this perfume by Bastille and I’ve been addicted ever since - it smells like summer. To keep it all together, I have many Elizabeth Scarlett pouches - they are perfect and double up as on evening bag.

• Final touches: a beaded necklace, my go-to hoops from Missoma, a brown leather belt, these sunglasses from &Other Stories and a good book. Not featured - the podcasts I will be consuming on the flights!

Have a good week!

—Rhi

However, my biggest irk is that I now have to pay to take a wheelie cabin bag on some short haul flights. Sometimes it’s worth the money, but as we’re lucky that the place we’re going has most of the amenities we need and we’re in a small beachside town with only local restaurants, we’re attempting to pack very light.

Here’s my list of what’s (hopefully) making it into my bag:

**I’ve starred the clothing that I’ll be wearing to travel - the heaviest items!

• 1x wrap denim jacket - for the cooler evenings and flight. Denim jackets can give you no shape, but this one from H&M brings in the waist with the tie.

• 1x thick long sleeve/sweatshirt - for the flight and nipping out to grab breakfast. I have this amazing one from Brut Archives and it’s so thick it’s almost a sweatshirt - it also doubles up as a cool graphic tee to stop holiday outfits feel too girly.

• 4x tees/vests - 1. a boxy tee (this one from Cos) works well with high waisted shorts/trousers so there’s less material to tuck in on a hot day, 2. an oversized graphic tee works hard on holiday - beach, breakfast and lounging post sun, 3. this towelling baby tee from ME+EM has the perfect fabric and fit - again less material to tuck, and 4. my favourite vest top that actually allow bras from Perfect White Tee.

• 1x blouse for dinner in the city on the first night. The red of this blouse from Australian brand Posse (available at Selfridges) really stands out amongst the other quite neutral palette.

• Swimwear - this is almost impossible to narrow down but needs must. I am taking my swimsuit from M&S (love the straight neckline on this and I’ll be wearing this as a top with shorts) and 1x crinkled bikini. &Other Stories do amazing dupes for Hunza G, I have bought this top and bottoms.

• 2x pairs of shorts - these Bermuda denim from &Other Stories and these ecru linen shorts from M&S. If I need to save space, the denim shorts will have to go but let’s hope.

• 2x pairs of trousers - these cream linen/denim blend trousers from M&S are perfect for warmer temperatures, as well as these cotton slouchy wide-leg trousers in sable, also M&S! I go for long in these (I’m 172cm for reference) so they fall right on my shoes, these are not for a cropped look.

• This really cool beach coverup dress/knit from Arket that could easily be worn in the beach bar afterwards.

• I read once that you should always pack for the in-between moments on holidays, and I’ve never forgotten it - the hotel breakfast, the coffee run, the nip to the supermarket. I always a pair of Sweaty Betty All Day leggings (there are no better leggings to wear… all day) - I get in navy blue to make it feel more chilled. Also a sports bra in case there’s a fun yoga class.

Next Sunday - bags, shoes, jewellery, beauty and hats.

Have a good week!

—Rhi