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The Gay Bucket List Moments We Never Got

The teenage milestones we missed and the grown-up versions we found later

Jun 17 • PJ and Thomas

A Few Good Things

Pride with friends in our small town, a yummy (easy) recipe, and what we did at the farm last weekend

Jun 12 • PJ and Thomas

Things Straight People Never Have to Think About

10 little calculations many LGBTQ people make every day without even realizing it

Jun 9 • PJ and Thomas

The Bedroom Game We’ve Been Playing Late at Night

The longer we’ve been married, the more we’ve learned the thrill is in the buildup and taking things to the *edge*

Jun 2

A Few Good Things

Including our new phone cases, a cute new movie, and the coolest thing we brought to the beach with us

May 30 • PJ and Thomas

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Video Q&A: What You’ve Always Wanted to Know (But We’ve Never Shared Until Now)

Dec 3, 2024 • PJ and Thomas

How Often We're Able to Be Intimate and 20 Other Questions on Life, Sex, and Love

Oct 23, 2024 • PJ and Thomas

How We Keep the Spark Alive in Our Marriage

Jul 9, 2024 • PJ and Thomas

How Receiving a Jock Strap in the Mail Spiced Things Up in the Bedroom

Dec 5, 2023 • PJ and Thomas

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