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Being in love with someone who no longer wants to be alive
Notes on loving a mentally unwell person. Trigger warning.
Jan 15
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Faima Bakar
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How to decentre marriage and why we must
There are other worthwhile pursuits too; faith, friendship, community, world-building.
Sep 4, 2025
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The art of creating a perfect marriage CV so a man will (finally) pick you
All the parts of myself I've changed at the behest of others.
Jun 9
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Do you know the One you are asking?
Allah is not lessened by giving you everything you ask for.
May 14
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Deleting Instagram was harder than putting on hijab
I see, I post. I experience, I post. I think, (therefore) I post.
Apr 7
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Rejecting a £90,000-salary job after three years of unemployment
Needless to say, it wasn't an easy decision.
Dec 2, 2025
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Faima Bakar
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The price of my neck
I put on a hijab and realised its cost, but I'd do it again, a thousand times over.
Jun 25, 2025
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Faima Bakar
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The brief but educational time I earned £60,000 to edit at a national newspaper
I went from working for myself to suddenly managing 24 people as a department head.
Jun 9, 2025
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Why finding love should take a village
Does the search for love have to be an individual pursuit?
Feb 13, 2025
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All these little sins
Every single day in 2024, I asked for forgiveness 1,000 times and it has transformed me.
Dec 22, 2024
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Dating is fun, actually?
I've gone on nine first dates this year and it's taught me something about the compelling nature of the dating industrial complex.
Sep 19, 2024
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The (s)talking stage: On the dating disadvantage of being an online person
Trigger warning!!!
Aug 15, 2024
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