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How to Ask for Space from People You Love

Romantic, platonic, familial, or otherwise, clearing that space takes courage to ask for what we need.

May 26 • Merry

Poems About New Beginnings for When You Need to Start Again

Starting anew can happen at any moment. Joy Sullivan shares her instructions for taking off.

May 15 • Merry

Why Being a Loner Helps You Make New Friends

When you’re confident and comfortable in your own company, it becomes easier to talk to strangers, reach out first, and make plans repeatedly. That’s…

May 11 • Merry

Why Being Alone Is Good for You

There are many benefits of solitude, but you have to give yourself the chance to sit there.

May 7 • Merry

Quotes About Feeling Alone to Remind Us We're Each Steering Our Own Ship

Consider these quotes a chance to rub shoulders with unmet kindred spirits.

Feb 1 • Merry

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How to Get Better at Doing Things Alone

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Messages on building confidence and comfort in your own company so you can stop waiting on other people to enjoy life.